- Do not confront the person you think is responsible for the abuse.
- Do not disturb or destroy anything that may be evidence.
- Do not start to investigate the situation.
- If the person is immediate danger, you should call the emergency services by dialling 999.
If you are looking after someone, or they are looking after you, this person may make you feel under pressure. To stop this happening, you might want to:
- talk to a person you trust about what your fears are and what you want to happen.
- be aware of local services that can help,
- agencies who can provide a paid care worker to help you with personal care
- talk to a carers service
- talk to your extended family about the support they might be able to offer
speak to social services
Often couples can struggle to care for one another when situations change. Follow the advice above about how you can get help if this feels like this is happening to you.